12 Dirty Questions To Ask Boyfriend To Turn Him On

When you’ve been dating someone for a while, you may find that it becomes more and more challenging to keep the passion alive in the bedroom. If you’re committed to your boyfriend and want to ensure that your relationship keeps moving in the right direction, it can be important to put effort into keeping one another happy—both in and out of the bedroom. You might discover that by asking your boyfriend some dirty questions, you can help him get turned on and bring excitement back into your relationship. In this article, we’ll be giving examples of 12 different dirty questions you can consider using with your significant other.

Dirty questions for your boyfriend

Below are 12 dirty questions to ask your boyfriend to turn him on. Every couple is different, and which questions you ask your boyfriend can depend on the dynamics of your relationship. Read through the following questions and assess which ones you think could be useful when you’re trying to set the mood for more intimacy and improve your sex life.

Would you like to know what I’m wearing?

This is one of the tamer questions on this list, but it's still something that could cause your boyfriend to get turned on. Depending on how he responds to this question and the other details you give him, he may be able to get a clear visual image of you without even being with you. You can give him an idea of what he’ll be coming home to, and this can get him primed and ready to enjoy your company later that night. He doesn’t necessarily need to know if you’re wearing something like sweatpants and an oversized t-shirt; the purpose of this question can be to be playful and get him to start thinking about you during the day.  

Would you like to pick out what I’m going to wear today?

Letting your boyfriend make some sexy decisions that you normally make for yourself could be an effective way to turn him on. You could let him pick out which bra and underwear you're going to wear for the day. This could even be accompanied by a picture of you wearing them later in the day. You can ask this question when the two of you are together or you can send him pictures of the options and let him pick out something risqué.

Do you want me to send you a special pic?

Instead of sending your boyfriend a naughty picture without warning, you could ask him first if he’d like one. This could be helpful if he’s at work and you don’t want to risk him getting a picture of you while in the presence of others. If your boyfriend agrees, you can then decide how suggestive you want the picture to be. Alternatively, you could initiate dirty talk by asking him what type of picture he’d like to see. Some people are comfortable taking full-on nude pictures for their partner, while others may go for a flirty clothes-on picture. Remember that even the slightest erotic image could turn him on, especially if it follows a dirty question like this one. Consider sending some visual aids now and then to keep him thinking about you.

Where is your favorite place to be kissed?

If you want to turn the topic toward more sexual questions, you can ask him where his favorite place to be kissed is. He may give you the answer you were expecting, or he might surprise you by picking an erogenous zone that you weren't thinking of. Either way, this question can get him thinking about you pleasuring him in one way or another. If you can keep him focused on these thoughts, it can help to get him aroused.

Where would you like to kiss me the next time we see each other?

Another interesting dirty question you could ask him is about where he would like to kiss you next time you’re together. A similar question you could ask him is “What’s your favorite part of my body to kiss?” Depending on how bold he’s feeling, you may get an answer that you weren’t expecting. Kissing is often one of the main aspects of foreplay and getting him to think about it can quickly get him turned on for more. You could also show or tell him where you'd like to feel his lips if you feel inclined.

What's your favorite position with me?

Personalizing this question so that he imagines you two together can make this dirty question even sexier. You can ask him what his favorite sex position is that you two usually do when making love or have done in the past. A similar question might be “What’s been your favorite sexual experience with me?” It can be a turn-on to think about all the exciting sexual moments that you have already shared. Plus, communicating about what you both enjoy in bed can help make future moments together even more pleasurable. 

Are there any positions you’d like for us to try?

Continuing the questioning about sexual positions may help take things up a notch. Rather than asking about your boyfriend’s favorite position, you can ask him about the sex positions that he would love to try. There may be some unique or interesting positions that he’s been wanting to try but hasn’t brought up yet. This question can open the door to trying new things in the bedroom. It can be important for you and your partner to understand what turns each of you on; asking questions about what each of you enjoys can help ensure that your sex life remains pleasurable and satisfying.  

Have you ever had sex in public?

Public sex is something that turns many people on, and it isn't uncommon for people to fantasize about having sex under the stars or in a place where they could get caught. Some might even think about how hot it would be to have sex in a public place such as a dark movie theater, a park, or a parked car. Remember that there are laws against doing such things, but that doesn’t mean you can’t fantasize about it and roleplay the scenario together.