Nine Fun Dirty Pick-Up Lines For Girls To Use On Guys

Updated October 15, 2024by Regain Editorial Team

There are several tried-and-true ways of ramping up the sexual energy between you and a guy you’re interested in. You can make eye contact, cross the touch barrier, or use your body language. But for girls who are willing to be a bit bolder, an unexpected, spicy come-on via a dirty pickup line can catch a guy off-guard and get him thinking about the bedroom. In the right situation, a dirty pick-up line can be a fun way to show your fearless personality, lighten the mood, and get a guy interested. In this article, we’re listing nine evocative pick-up lines for you to try out. 

Nine dirty pick-up lines to try 

It’s important to note that you should only use a suggestive pick-up line when you’re certain that a guy will be receptive to it. This could be the case when you’ve both been flirting, and the conversation has become increasingly sexual or, perhaps, when you’re already in a relationship with a guy, and you’d like to come on to him in a more fun way. If, however, you don’t know a guy, or you aren’t positive he’ll be receptive to a sexual comment, using a dirty pick-up line can be inappropriate. In situations when it is suitable, though, a flirty come-on or dirty pickup lines can be a great way of creating sexual tension and getting a guy excited. The following are nine dirty pick-up lines to try out when you want to spice things up. 

1. “Would you like to go out to dinner sometime, or should we go to my room and skip right to dessert?”

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This is a risqué way to start things off. Making the jump from dessert to intimacy should be easy for him, so this is a fairly direct line that shows a guy that you’re interested in being much more than friends. Give this one a shot if you need a fun, naughty pick-up line that doesn’t take things too far. It can be perfect for someone who has been flirting with you in a sexual way as well.

2. “Do you mind if I finish the cherry from your drink?”

Men tend to be drawn to a woman’s lips, so getting him thinking about you eating a cherry can be powerful sexual imagery. While it is only applicable in a select few situations, a naughty pick-up line like this one has connotations that can get a man’s attention right away. 

3. “I used to take riding lessons. Would you like to come to my room later so that I can show you?”

The visual of riding a motorcycle, a horse, or a dirt bike can be very suggestive, quickly making a guy think about a girl’s sexual prowess. It can also be a turn-on to simply know that a woman has skills. The pick-up line starts innocently enough—and he might think that you’re actually talking about horse-riding. Your mind is likely in a different place, though, and he’s going to catch up to your meaning once he gets the innuendo. 

4. “That shirt looks really good on you, but then again, so would I.”

Compliments are always a good way to start a pick-up line. You’re opening up the flirting by taking note of his sense of fashion, and you’re ending by letting him know that you’re interested in him. The visual that accompanies this line will probably pique his interest as well. This is less risqué than many of the overt lines on this list, but it’s still quite flirty. If a conversation with a guy is becoming sexual, this line can help you turn the heat up even more.

5. “Are you a delivery man? Because I think you’re the total package.”

This pick-up line could be altered slightly to be less subtle, depending on what you want to compliment him on. Most of all, though, this come-on is funny, which is helpful because humor is considered an important aspect of romantic relationships. It could make him laugh some and lighten the mood, all while getting him thinking about taking things to the next level.

6. “Do you know what color my underwear is? Trick question. I’m not wearing any.”

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The mere mention of your undergarments will likely send his mind reeling. But adding the fact that it was a trick question could make his heart race. Guys often like a girl who is direct and knows what she wants, so this line can be very effective. 

7. “You look like a real hard worker. Perhaps you could let some of your work ethic rub off on me later.”

Flirty double-entendre words such as “hard” and “rub” are likely going to get a response from a guy, or at least make him think about your comments a bit longer. Your flirty chat-up line also compliments him, which, again, can be a major turn-on for a guy. This can be a good one to use on a guy whose physique you’ve already complimented. 

8. “I love your jeans, but they’d look a lot better on my floor.”

Using a pick-up line that puts a concrete image in a guy’s head can be more effective than saying something vague or abstract. Studies show that men react to sexual visuals more strongly than women. This pick-up line gives him a clear idea of how you might turn the heat up in your relationship. You can substitute “jeans” for anything that the guy you’re hitting on happens to be wearing—compliment his shirt, shorts, coat, or anything else that he might have on. Once he can picture his clothes crumpled up on your bedroom floor, he may be ready to turn things up a notch.

9. “Have you ever given a girl an Australian kiss? It’s the best. It’s like a French kiss—but you’re going down under.”

Research shows that giving oral sex is linked to well-being in men; so, this pick-up line may pique a guy’s interest more than you’d think. It’s mostly going to get him thinking about a specific type of intimacy and signal that you know what you want, which is sexy for most men. 

Being able to have the courage to use pick-up lines like these aren’t always going to come easy. Again, it’s important that you’re only communicating in this way if you’re sure a man is receptive to it. If so, this can be a great way to introduce a sexual component into a new romantic relationship or spice up a long-term partnership. Feel free to make use of these pick-up lines if they fit your sense of style. And if you’d like to learn more about sexual chemistry and intimacy in relationships, counseling can help.  

If none of the nine dirty pickup lines above work for you, here are some others to consider. 

  • Are you a sea lion? Because I can see you lion in my bed tonight. 
  • My doctor told me I have a Vitamin D deficiency. Wanna come to my bed tonight and save me?
  • Treat me like a pirate and give me that booty
  • Let us let only latex stand between our love.
  • You’re so hot even my zipper is falling for you.
  • I’m no meteorologist, but I feel like I can expect more than a few inches tonight.
  • I’m not into watching sunsets, but I’d love to see you go down.
  • Let’s play a game. The fastest person to take their clothes off wins.
  • Roses are red, violets are fine. I’ll be the 6, you be the 9.
  • How do you feel about being on the naughty list? 
  • Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?
  • Are you a haunted house? Because I’m going to scream when you’re inside me.
  • What’s a nice person like you doing in a dirty mind like mine?
  • There are 206 bones in the human body, but I’d really like to have 207.
  • Let’s make a deal. You give me that body, and I’ll give you a night you won’t forget.

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Takeaway

A dirty pick-up line can be a fun and effective way of showing a guy you’re interested in becoming intimate with him. As long as you remember to use them when appropriate, the above lines (and others you come up with) can get a guy’s attention quickly. If you’d like to create more sexual intimacy in your relationship, consider working with a licensed therapist online. With the right support, you can spice things up in the bedroom and connect more deeply with your partner. 

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