Unique Gifts For The Woman Who Wants Nothing

Receiving a gift, especially an unexpected one, can be an exciting and wonderful surprise. While receiving the gift is fun, picking one out does not necessarily cause the same degree of excitement. Some people enjoy shopping for others, but it is difficult to shop for unique gifts for a woman who says she wants nothing.

Why would a person not want anything? Some people prefer the act of giving instead of receiving. You can also consider that they are too shy to name a particular gift they want, or worried you may judge them. No matter the reason, wanting to give a gift to a woman you care for who tells you they do not want anything can be frustrating. The following unique gift ideas may help you decide which to choose for special occasions, expressing love, and beyond.

Anniversary milestone gifts when dating

If you have been dating someone and have an upcoming six-month, one-year, or other milestone dating anniversary, there are several unique gift ideas she may like. Keep in mind that you do not want to overdo it on the gift if you have only been dating for a short while. Simple but thoughtful gifts are appropriate for this situation.

Framed picture of the two of you

A framed picture of the two of you is a simple way to express you recognize the significance of your relationship. Many women appreciate it when their significant other shows a sentimental side. This gift shows that you thought to give her something special and that you cherish. She will be pleased to see that you kept the picture and cared enough to frame it. It does not have to be a large picture, as this works well with pictures from photo booths or selfies. Try to find a cute frame that describes your relationship perfectly.

Dining experience

Make reservations at her favorite restaurant where you can reserve a room or the entire space for just the two of you. If this is out of your price range, you can make a meal in your space or in a beautiful outdoor location. Use her favorite flowers as centerpieces and create a playlist with all her favorite songs. 

A couple's night out

Most women that want absolutely nothing may not take the time to enjoy all of life's simplicities. It can be a task for them to get out and enjoy their friends. Make plans for a couple's night. It may include dancing, dining, movies, or hanging out at her favorite spot listening to live music. The point of this gift is to make her forget it is a gift and ensure that she enjoys the moment. This is also one of the best gifts for friend couples.

Donate to her favorite charity

If she has a favorite charity or cause, donate. She will  value the fact that you care about her belief in a cause or her desire to support a charity. This can be a recurring or one-time donation, but the idea of giving to help others is an immeasurable gift.

Do something different

If you are dating someone that has expressed she wants to try something different or do something special for you. She will be grateful that you make an effort to do something that she needed you to do. It could be something as simple as repairing something around the house or filling her tank with fuel. These are little things that make a big difference to some women, and she will treasure your effort more than any gift you could ever give.

Unique gift ideas for her birthday

Birthdays are a special time and are meant to commemorate the birth of a person. Understandably, you want to give her a gift on her birthday, but what do you give the woman who wants nothing? The best approach to choosing a gift for this person is to make sure the gift is unique.

Here are a few unique birthday gift ideas for her that you may want to consider.

A painted portrait of herself

Use her favorite picture and have a sketch artist recreate it. Have a special message etched at the bottom to add a unique touch. This gift is not purchased at a local jeweler store or gift shop, but shows that you actually took the time to choose something special. However, if she already has a painted image of herself, you may want to choose a different gift.

Take her to the fair or street festival

How often do you take her out for a unique kind of fun? Probably not often enough. If there is a local street festival or city fair around her birthday, take her. She will probably enjoy the opportunity to do something different and exciting. This is the kind of gift that takes her back to being a child, having fun on the Ferris wheel and eating cotton candy. It is also one that you both will enjoy. Maybe you will win a prize for her too!

Engrave a gift for her

Does she enjoy coffee? Have her name or favorite quote stitched on the item as a gift. Does she have a necklace that she wears all the time? If possible, have her initials engraved on it or a date that is dear to her heart. If she loves to write, you can buy a beautiful pen and engrave an endearing quote that she will appreciate and remind her that you care for her. 

Make a dessert for her

Buying her a cake is nice, but choosing to make the cake yourself is unique in more ways than one. Even if baking is not your strength, go for it. The cake may not turn out as pretty or tasty as those from the bakery, but she most likely will not care. When you give someone a homemade dessert baked with love, they have no choice but to recognize you are thinking of them and want to brighten their day. Your effort and thought that you put into baking the treat makes the gift very special.

Give her a customized card

Make a card for her instead of buying one. This allows you to say what you want on a card, and you may consider including words from your favorite poem or song. There are several digital options for creating customized birthday cards. You can also make her a card from scratch, such as a pop-up floral card or one you paint with watercolors. 

Unique gift ideas for the wedding day

A contemporary trend for the bride and groom is to exchange gifts on their wedding day before the nuptials. You may be lucky enough to marry a woman who insists that she wants nothing more than to become your wife. As much as you shadow that sentiment, you still want to give her a gift to make her day even more memorable.

Here are a few unique wedding gift ideas for the bride-to-be:

A necklace or bracelet with your wedding date embossed

A top gift idea is to give her a piece of jewelry to commemorate your wedding day forever. Consider an infinity symbol or a heart-shaped pendant. Choose a stone or finish that complements her wedding ring. Silver, gold, or white gold pieces should be easy to find and should not take long to have embossed.

Her favorite fragrance

Nothing can make your bride more beautiful than her wearing her favorite scent on her wedding day. You are already head over heels in love with her. Give her the fragrance that you know she loves and reminds you of how much you love her. 

A family heirloom

Gifting her with a family heirloom is a special and unique gift that she will adore. Talk to your mother or grandmother about presenting the gift to her before the wedding to make it extra special.

Pen a letter and include a nice gift

Write a letter to your bride-to-be on your wedding day expressing your love for her. Mention the moment you first realized that you loved her and that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with her. Tell her about the little thing that she does that drives you wild and how you cannot wait to become her partner for life. She is probably already filled with emotions, and this letter will make the moment extraordinarily special.

Add a unique detail to the décor

Speak with the wedding planner to find out what the one thing was your bride-to-be wanted but did not get to incorporate into the wedding. Work with the planner to make this happen as a surprise to your future wife. She may have decided on a different flower due to cost or excluded something from the décor to preserve the budget. She will be surprised and find it extremely romantic that you took the time to take care of such an intimate detail for the wedding day.

Unique gift ideas that say I’m sorry

In a relationship, problems will occur. Naturally, being upset will keep her from wanting anything from you.  Working towards reconciling your conflict is essential, but a gift can be a thoughtful symbol of your apology. However, you may be stuck and not know what to give her because you are so preoccupied with trying to make things right to think of the perfect gift.

Here are a few gift ideas for when you need to apologize for doing something wrong in the relationship.

1. Write a letter

Take the time to write a letter to your partner. Express your deepest regrets for whatever has happened and take personal responsibility for your part in it. Be bold and tell her how you feel about her. Sometimes, it helps to see the thoughts of someone you care for in handwritten words. Avoid texting her because it is not nearly as meaningful. An added benefit of writing your regrets is the opportunity to clearly communicate your thoughts. A letter can also give her the time and space to process her what happened and open the door of communication for a face-to-face conversation. 

2. Give her a spa or massage day

Schedule a full day of pampering to help her release some of the stress caused by the problems in the relationship. A day of hair, nails, and skin treatments is a great way to help her relax. She may not want anything, but this is something that any woman could use and would likely enjoy. Another gift idea is to get her a massage to help work through the tension she may have from a conflict with you. 

3. Lend her your ear

Tell her you want to listen to her with no interruption nor interjections. Some causes of conflict are based in poor communication and one of the best gifts you can give her is lending her your ear. You may begin with telling her you are sorry and want to give her the space to express any and all the emotions she needs to with no recourse, only reflection. Show your partner that you are eager to hear what they say by setting aside some time to listen to what she has to say. Go to a quiet space, turn off your phone, and actively listen to what needs to tell you. 

4. Plan a getaway just for her

This may seem a bit strange, but planning a getaway only for her may be just what she needs. Schedule an out-of-town trip for her to enjoy all alone. She may need a little space to think things over. Find a quiet and beautiful space for her to enjoy a relaxing weekend where she can clear her mind in peace. It is a way for you to show that you understand that things are rough, but you want to give her the time and space she needs to think about what is happening in the relationship. Be sure to choose a place that she will enjoy. 

5. Suggest counseling

Sometimes, "I'm sorry" is not enough to mend the problem or hurt. If the relationship is in significant trouble, it may help one or both of you seek counseling. It is possible that the two of you are unable to work through these issues on your own. A counselor is trained and skilled at providing quality advice and counsel to help individuals and couples deal with challenging situations. You will want to discuss this with her before setting an appointment. Only suggest and do not push. If she does not want to go to couples counseling, know that can gain great results from counseling that they can also bring to the relationship. Therefore, individual counseling sessions can be equally as beneficial as couples or group counseling.

If she agrees to couples counselor, look for a therapist you both agree upon with whom you feel comfortable and sense they will play an impartial role in mediating any issues that arise during sessions. For example, one or both of may be unable to contain your anger while communicating, a therapist can help the two speak to each other healthily and respectfully rather than with negativity. Your counselor will be present and help you both learn healthy communication strategies and grow a closer bond with purpose and without disdain.

Finding a therapist in-person can come with its own challenges, especially when are trying to coordinate appointments or need to commute from a remote location or through intense traffic. Fortunately, online therapy is available to help you and is supported by research to be equally effective as in-person therapy in helping people navigate through relationship challenges.  If you are not sure about finding an online therapist for yourself and your partner, take a look at Regain. Regain is an online platform that connects you with a qualified therapist who understands your issues and wants to help. With Regain, it will be easier for you to decide who you want to help you because you get to meet with your therapist online, from the comfort of your own home.

Takeaway

Giving a gift is a special act of kindness, a way to express that you care and you are thinking of the person. Remember, while it is always nice to give to others, it is best to give them something that they can cherish or use. People often choose gifts based on current trends, but they will not well-received if the recipient has no interest. Gifts are nice, but  the sentiment behind the gift gives it true charm. Even for the woman who says she wants nothing, one of the above suggestions for unique gifts for the woman who wants nothing may be just what she needs.