About me

I am a licensed marriage/Family therapist licensed by the state of Oklahoma. Individuals can work on their marriage or relationship without both people being there. Families can do likewise with just one member of the family doing the session: they can take home and share the insights and guidance relative to their problem. With couples I emphasize that there are 8 areas of shared life, not the same thing as life goals. With life goals they should expect support from their partner or family. In the 8 shared areas of committed relationships there are 8 categories of sharing (in addition to life goals). These 8 areas are money, sex, children, choice of friends, choice of activities, use of time, dealings with extended family and spirituality. I have been working with individuals, couples, and families for 47 years I use systems theory, NLP and rational emotive approache, fitting methodology to the situation. We also work with "drivers". These are inner messages we all have , , categorized as Be Perfect, Try Hard, Hurry Up, Be Strong and Please others. Underneath the driving messages are our deepest values.

Specialties

  • Relationships
  • Family conflicts
  • Grief
  • Intimacy
  • Parenting issues
Also experienced in:
Stress, Anxiety , Addictions , Trauma and abuse , Sleeping disorders , Anger management , Self esteem , Career difficulties , Depression , Coping with life changes , Compassion fatigue , ADHD , Adoption and foster care , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems

Years of Experience: 46

Services offered


  • Messaging

  • Phone

  • Video

Licensing

OK LMFT LMFT00434

Reviews

These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Lawrence Losoncy. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with Regain might be different.

Written on Jan 19, 2025 after therapy with Lawrence for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

Lawrence was very insightful and helpful. We are thankful for his time, patience, kindness, and advice.

Written on Dec 28, 2024 after therapy with Lawrence for 11 months on issues concerning relationship

He is wonderful

Written on Jun 22, 2024 after therapy with Lawrence for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning relationship

Lawrence offers strong support and careful guidance on me sorting through my interpersonal complications in life. I am very happy with my experience.

Written on May 08, 2024 after therapy with Lawrence for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

We are three sessions in but already feel so grateful to have Larry guiding us to get better.

Written on Mar 22, 2023 after therapy with Lawrence for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

Larry provided a lovely safe space for us to communicate and some great stories to boot. We found that after several sessions that much of his commentary repeated and that details around our relationship and selves were not remembered or built upon. We're looking for more actionable feedback and assignments that we're held accountable for. And someone to call us out when needed. Thanks so much for your time and insights Larry!! It was lovely to spend time with you.

Written on Dec 29, 2022 after therapy with Lawrence for 2 months on issues concerning relationship

Dr. Larry is fantastic and offers thoughtful and useful advice to couples in need of help maintaining a healthy path forward.

Written on Nov 18, 2022 after therapy with Lawrence for 1 month on issues concerning relationship

Very impressed with Larry. His experience was just what we needed.

Written on Oct 24, 2022 after therapy with Lawrence for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship

thank you

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